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Please click on the following link to access support for parents and carers with regard to the Underwear Rule. 

NSPCC Underwear Rule Guidance for Parents

Let’s Talk PANTS: Helping Children Stay Safe

At Croxteth, we believe that teaching children about body autonomy is just as important as teaching them to cross the road safely. We use the NSPCC’s "Talk PANTS" campaign to help children understand that their body belongs to them.

What is the PANTS Rule?

The PANTS rule is a simple way to explain to children that they have the right to say "no" and that they should always tell a trusted adult if they are worried.

  • P - Privates are Private: Parts of the body covered by underwear are private. No one should ask to see or touch them.

  • A - Always Remember Your Body Belongs to You: No one should make you do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.

  • N - No Means No: You have the right to say no, even to a family member or someone you love.

  • T - Talk About Secrets That Upset You: There are good secrets (like a surprise party) and "bad" secrets that make you feel sad or scared. These should always be shared.

  • S - Speak Up, Someone Can Help: If you are worried, tell an adult you trust—like a teacher, a parent, or a friend's mum.

Meet Pantosaurus!

To make the conversation fun and less daunting, the NSPCC uses Pantosaurus, a friendly dinosaur who sings about the PANTS rule.

> A great way to start the conversation is to watch the Pantosaurus video with your child and ask them what they remember about the rules.

Advice for Parents: Having the Conversation

Many parents worry that talking about this might be "too much, too young." The PANTS rule is specifically designed to be child-friendly:

  1. Start Early: You can start talking about PANTS as soon as your child starts to dress themselves or goes to nursery.

  2. Use Natural Moments: Bath time or getting dressed are great times to mention that "privates are private."

  3. Keep it Simple: You don't need to use scary words or talk about sex. Focus on "what is okay" and "what is not okay."

  4. Listen: If your child tells you something that worries you, stay calm, thank them for telling you, and reassure them that it is not their fault.

Local Support & Resources in Liverpool

If you have concerns or need more guidance on how to handle a disclosure, there are local and national services available:

  • NSPCC Helpline: Call 0808 800 5000 if you are worried about a child.

  • Liverpool Careline: 0151 233 3700 (Support for children and families in Liverpool).

  • Childline: Children can call 0800 1111 anytime to talk to someone in confidence.

  • YPAS (Young Person’s Advisory Service): Provides mental health and wellbeing support for Merseyside families.

  1. Learn the Underwear Rule
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